Stay in the Front Row of Your Teen’s Life: A Beginner’s Guide to Positive Discipline

“Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order for kids to do better, first we need to make them feel worse. Kids do better when they feel better.”
- Dr. Jane Nelsen, author of Positive Discipline

I have been practicing Positive Discipline with my own kids and facilitating it with others for the past 14 years. When my kids were young, it felt easy to implement, once we hit the teens years and things got messy, I felt total overwhelm and confusion.

And I know I am not alone.

The teen years are TOUGH. And, if you are like I was, you may be a parent of a school-aged child thinking — “you know, I just don’t see the teen years as being a problem for me.”

Good luck with that, my friend..

The teen years are always unexpected. No matter what’s happening coming into them, you will be taken by surprise, over and over again — not because teens are rotten humans and have character flaws, but because the terrain of the teen years is rugged.

Those of us committed to parenting the Positive Discipline way know that the desire for belonging and significance is at the root of all behavior . This quote by Jane Nelsen, author of Positive Discipline, captures that sentiment. Our kids, our teens, want to feel a sense of connection and they want to know that they matter.